
Grade Level: Kindergarten
Topic: Gender Stereotypes/Expectations
Book Title: “No Difference Between Us”
Author: Jayneen Sanders
Link to Purchase: https://a.co/d/gv5ty5c
Link for Online Read-Aloud : https://youtu.be/vXnzgvUIYZE?si=5F0ygNoXwZiOfpa4
Discussion Prompts/Questions:
- Unfortunately, the online read-aloud doesn’t include the discussion questions on each page. There are also fantastic extended discussion guides in the back of the book, on pages 30-31.
- Page 5 – “What do you like to have for breakfast?”
- Page 7 – “What kind of hair do you have?”
- Page 9 – “What kind of things do you like to do?”
- Page 13 – “What sports or outdoor activities do you like to do?”
- Page 15 – “What kind of things do you like to play when you stay inside?”
- Page 17 – “What do you think you might like to be when you grow up?”
- Page 19 – “What might your family be like when you are grown up?”
- Page 21 – “How are you different in tiny little ways from your sister or brother or friend? How are you exactly the same?”
- Page 25 – “When do you feel happy? When do you feel scared? When do you feel sad? When do you feel angry? When do you feel worried? Who makes you feel loved?”
- Page 27 – “What choices do you make?”
Follow-Up Activity:
- Put out a variety of different play options, including those typically “gendered”, and encourage children to play with something new. This is also a good time to “mix-up” where things are located and how they are played with…for example, if doll house toys and dinosaurs are located on opposite sides of the room, place them closer together.
- Model the fact that it’s ok for children to play with, and enjoy, a variety of different toys. One way that you can do this is by using sparkly markers/paints to draw trucks, use a princess toy to drive a tractor, dress as Superman to take care of doll babies, etc.
BC Core Competency Connections:
Personal and Social
- Personal Awareness & Responsibility
- I can show a sense of accomplishment and joy, and express some wants, needs, and preferences. I can sometimes recognize my emotions.
- Social Awareness and Responsibility
- I can help and be kind.
- I am aware that other people can be different from me.
- In familiar settings, I can interact with others and my surroundings respectfully.
Thinking
- Creative Thinking
- I get ideas when I play.
- Critical Thinking
- I can explore materials and actions.
Communication
- Communicating
- In a safe and supported environment, I respond meaningfully to communication from peers and adults.
- Collaborating
- In familiar situations, I can participate with others.
BC Curricular Connections:
- Understand (Big Ideas):
- Stories and other texts help us learn about ourselves and our families. (ELA K)
- Everyone has a unique story to share. (ELA K)
- Through listening and speaking, we connect with others and share our world. (ELA K)
- Our communities are diverse and made of individuals who have a lot in common. (SS K)
- Confidence develops through the process of self-discovery. (Career Education K)
- Learning about ourselves and others helps us develop a positive attitude and caring behaviours, which helps us build healthy relationships. (Physical and Health Education K)
- Know (Content):
- Ways in which individuals and families differ and are the same. (SS K)
- Cultural and social awareness, achieved by exploring self-identity, acknowledging cultural differences, honouring indigenous traditions. (Career Education K)
- Caring behaviours in groups and families. (Physical and Health Education K)
- Do (Curricular Competency):
- Comprehend and connect (reading, listening, viewing)
- Engage actively as listeners, viewers, and readers, as appropriate, to develop understanding of self, identity, and community. (ELA K)
- Recognize the importance of story in personal, family, and community identity. (ELA K)
- Create and communicate (writing, speaking, representing)
- Exchange ideas and perspectives to build shared understanding. (ELA K)
- Use language to identify, create, and share ideas, feelings, opinions, and preferences. (ELA K)
- Acknowledge different perspectives on people, places, issues, or events in their lives. (SS K)
- Identify fair and unfair aspects of events, decisions, or actions in their lives and consider appropriate courses of action. (SS K)
- Share ideas, information, personal feelings, and knowledge with others. (Career Education K)
- Develop and demonstrate respectful behaviour when participating in activities with others. (Physical and Health Education K)
- Comprehend and connect (reading, listening, viewing)
FPPL Link:
- Learning ultimately supports the well-being of the self, the family, the community, the land, the spirits, and the ancestors.
- Learning is holistic, reflexive, reflective, experiential, and relational (focused on connectedness, on reciprocal relationships, and a sense of place).
- Learning is embedded in memory, history, and story.
- Learning requires exploration of one’s identity.
BC ELF Link:
- Children are strong, capable in their uniqueness, and full of potential.
- Early years spaces are inclusive.
- Play is integral to well-being and learning.
- Relationships are the context for well-being and learning.
- Learning is holistic.
TFT Through-line Link:
- Justice Seeking
- Community Building
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